The Family Stone review: A Christmas romcom that never quite warms up
The Family Stone (2005) has a big cast and a nice ending, but it is slow, its characters rarely act believably and the Christmas romance never quite arrives: a watchable 3/5.

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Every December we work through a stack of Christmas romcoms as a family, and The Family Stone is the one that comes up on almost every list. So we finally watched it as a family, with our teenage daughter on the sofa too. Honestly, none of us found it all that good. It has its moments and a nice ending, but it is slow, the characters rarely act in a way you believe, and the warm Christmas romance we were hoping for never quite turned up. That is a 3 out of 5 from us.
The story in one line
Everett Stone brings his girlfriend, Meredith Morton, home for Christmas to meet his large, loud family in New England. Meredith is a reserved, buttoned-up New Yorker, and the Stones make it clear almost immediately that they do not like her. When things go badly, she calls her younger sister Julie for support, and the holiday spirals from there, while a family secret sits underneath everything.
On paper it is a good Christmas setup: a crowded house, a girlfriend under pressure and a family with opinions. It is the kind of story that should give you both laughs and the cozy, everything-will-be-fine feeling that December films are for.
The cast is the best thing about it
The cast is the reason the film is on everyone’s list. Sarah Jessica Parker plays Meredith, and Dermot Mulroney plays Everett, the eldest son. Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson play his parents, Sybil and Kelly Stone. Luke Wilson is his brother Ben, Rachel McAdams his sister Amy, and Tyrone Giordano and Elizabeth Reaser complete the siblings as Thad and Susannah. Claire Danes arrives as Meredith’s sister Julie, and Brian J. White plays Thad’s partner, Patrick.
That is a lot of well-known faces for one house, and it is one of the reasons we expected more. If you have seen The Proposal, you will recognize Craig T. Nelson, who plays the father of the family there as well.
Too slow for a romcom
Our biggest problem was the pace. The Family Stone takes a long time to get anywhere, and it rarely builds the momentum a romantic comedy lives on. For a film of a little under two hours, it felt long on our sofa.
That matters more in this genre than in others. A Christmas romcom does not need a complicated plot, but it does need to move: a meeting, a complication, a turn, a happy end. Here the complications pile up, but the story itself barely moves forward for long stretches.
Characters who are hard to believe
The second problem was the characters. The people in this film rarely act in a way that feels believable. Again and again we found ourselves wondering why someone would behave like that, and when the film asks you to go along with its turns, it has not done the work to make you believe them.
That made it hard for us to care. A family comedy can push its characters to extremes, but you need to recognize something of real people in them, and we mostly did not.
The Christmas mood never arrives
What we missed most was the feeling. We put on Christmas romcoms for one reason: that warm, romantic, snow-on-the-windows mood that makes December evenings special. The Family Stone has the setting, a decorated house and the family gathered for the holidays, but that beautiful romantic Christmas atmosphere you hope for never really came through for us. It is more of a family drama with jokes than a cozy Christmas romance.
The ending is the best part
The ending is predictable, but it is nice, and for a moment it gives you exactly the feeling we had been waiting for all evening: the moment when everything works out. That short stretch is the closest the film comes to the Christmas romcom it could have been, and it means the evening ended on a good note. It is just a shame it takes so long to get there.
The people behind the film
Thomas Bezucha wrote and directed The Family Stone. Michael London produced, Jonathan Brown was the director of photography, Jeffrey Ford edited, and Michael Giacchino wrote the music.
20th Century Fox released it in the US on December 16, 2005, and it runs 104 minutes. It is rated PG-13. The DVD followed on May 2, 2006.
Release and box office
The Family Stone was a clear commercial success. According to The Numbers, it cost about $18 million to make and opened with about $12.5 million in its first weekend. It went on to earn about $60 million in the US and Canada and about $92 million worldwide, roughly five times its budget. That success is one reason it has become a regular on Christmas lists ever since.
Is it a good family movie night?
For a family with teenagers, it works. It is rated PG-13, and we watched it with our daughter without any problem. Younger children will simply be bored: it is a slow, talky film about adults and their relationships.
- Best age: teenagers and up.
- Mood: a quiet December evening when you do not need the film to be the highlight.
- Runtime: 104 minutes, which feels longer because of the pace.
- Where to watch: in the US it streams on Hulu from November 1, 2026.
- Better Christmas romance: our review of The Holiday is the one we would put on first.
- Christmas with the younger kids: our Christmas movie collection is the family list.
Why it is a 3
The Family Stone is not a bad film, and we would not tell anyone to avoid it. You can watch it. It has a big cast, a nice ending and a real Christmas setting. But it is slow, its characters are hard to believe, and it never gave us the romantic Christmas mood we watch these films for. There are simply better Christmas romcoms, and that is what a 3 out of 5 is meant to say.
Pros
- A big, well-known cast, from Sarah Jessica Parker to Diane Keaton and Rachel McAdams
- A predictable but nice ending with that brief everything-works-out feeling
- A real Christmas setting in a family home
- Works as a family evening with teenagers
Cons
- Slow, with long stretches where the story barely moves
- Characters who rarely act in a believable way
- The warm, romantic Christmas mood never quite arrives
- Too slow and talky for younger children
Conclusion: Watchable, but there are better ones
The Family Stone did not win us over. The cast is strong and the ending is nice, but the film is slow, its characters rarely act believably, and the cozy Christmas romance we hoped for never really arrives. You can watch it on a December evening with the family. There are just better Christmas romcoms to put on first.
The Final Word: a watchable Christmas film with a nice ending, but not one we will return to. 3 out of 5.
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